who are ‘they’? the ones that scare you. the ones that judge you. criticize you. hurt you. are they real? are they standing over you whispering in your ear all the ways that you’re doing it wrong? are they calling you to share the ways that you’ll fail? texting you to ask ‘who do […]
Tag: self confidence
the reason
the first book i’m checking off my 2020 reading list is jordan lee dooley’s own your everyday: overcome the pressure to prove and show up for what you were made to do. and while i really enjoyed the whole thing & got a lot out of it – this paragraph hit me right in […]
what i’m worth
self acceptance. self confidence. self love. three lines i have scribbled down on a piece of paper & stuck to my bulletin board above the desk in my room. my why. the reasons i decided to start writing out my thoughts & feelings on my way to (hopefully) overcoming the huge life challenges thrown […]
who the heck am i?
i am not kahla adele evans. not 100%. not yet anyways. but this week i came one step closer to what i will be *officially* known as for the rest of my life. i was actually born kahla adele buchanan & lived that way for most of my life. when i got married, i became […]
having fun
“don’t forget to have fun” sounds pretty simple, hey? this quote i scribbled down around this time last year & even though it’s beyond simple – it’s beyond important. this weekend i noticed two really huge things… #1 being that i haven’t been having a whole lot of fun & #2 being that i have […]
just stop it already
“stop stopping yourself” this was one of the very first quotes i wrote out in this old dollar store notebook i found while unpacking some boxes about a year ago. i had just moved in with my mama after leaving my marriage & i found myself wondering if i had done the right thing. am […]
happy birthday to me
officially woke up as a 32-year-old woman today! i am one of those people who LOVE birthdays. everyone’s – not just mine & i’ve been known to celebrate whole birthday weeks. i mean, this is the one time of the year that’s just for you. all about you. and i firmly believe that everyone should […]