them’s the rules. the non-negotiables if you will. i usually don’t like having rules or a list of things to follow – i’ve always been a little too rebellious for that, but this is pretty simple. simple yet oh so freaking important. so, from this point forward i will trust myself. i will only treat […]
Tag: self acceptance
to the girl who worries…
to the girl who worries that she’s not good enough. that she should be further along in her life, or have more in her life. that worries she messes everything up or that she never follows through with anything. that she makes bad decisions. that worries she sucks at relationships, that she’ll never find that […]
love in a dangerous time
preaching to myself right now… big time. now due to the fact that i’m single with no kids & have a career that requires me to put a bit more effort into my appearance, i, by default spend a fair amount of time & money focusing on myself – my happiness & my appearance. but […]
what i’m worth
self acceptance. self confidence. self love. three lines i have scribbled down on a piece of paper & stuck to my bulletin board above the desk in my room. my why. the reasons i decided to start writing out my thoughts & feelings on my way to (hopefully) overcoming the huge life challenges thrown […]
who the heck am i?
i am not kahla adele evans. not 100%. not yet anyways. but this week i came one step closer to what i will be *officially* known as for the rest of my life. i was actually born kahla adele buchanan & lived that way for most of my life. when i got married, i became […]
having fun
“don’t forget to have fun” sounds pretty simple, hey? this quote i scribbled down around this time last year & even though it’s beyond simple – it’s beyond important. this weekend i noticed two really huge things… #1 being that i haven’t been having a whole lot of fun & #2 being that i have […]
just stop it already
“stop stopping yourself” this was one of the very first quotes i wrote out in this old dollar store notebook i found while unpacking some boxes about a year ago. i had just moved in with my mama after leaving my marriage & i found myself wondering if i had done the right thing. am […]
happy birthday to me
officially woke up as a 32-year-old woman today! i am one of those people who LOVE birthdays. everyone’s – not just mine & i’ve been known to celebrate whole birthday weeks. i mean, this is the one time of the year that’s just for you. all about you. and i firmly believe that everyone should […]